After Getting Pregnant For Two Guys, My Life Seems To…………Read More

This lady has lost it and she needs to get her life back on track as fast as possible. Read her story below:

I am in desperate need of some good advice. First of all before I start let me get this fact out in the open; I am more than aware that i
have made major mistakes in my life, however i am even more aware that I need to rectify my situation, and I need to do it now.

A few years ago I was seeing a guy and I thought it was the real thing…. I was wrong. I got pregnant and as soon as I told him he vanished into thin air. I had a baby boy, who is now four and continued to live in my mother’s house, I was 25, unmarried and a
single mother while still living as a dependent in my mothers house therefore I was beyond depressed. My mother didn’t rebuke me, she
helped me take care of my son and I was able to get a pretty good job.

Just over two years ago I started dating a guy and we have been together ever since, we had no issues at all up until October when he lost his job. Our world literally fell apart, we had to put all plans for our wedding and plans to move into our own home on hold. The
worst part was that I was already pregnant… I was only weeks away from giving birth and now we had no income at all as i had left my
job, seeing as we were comfortable on his salary. As accommodating as my mother was i took the decision to move in with my partner and his mother as he said it would please her greatly and that as a man he could not come to stay at my mother’s house.

This was the start of the issues that I currently have. My partner was the one looking after his mother financially, and as he had no means of income anything I could get I would contribute towards the running of the house.

Last week his mother sat me down when my partner wasn’t at home and complained that the money I was giving wasn’t enough that I
had to give her more money, she complained that my ‘husband’ eats so much and that as a wife it was my duty to make sure he was
catered for. I am now stuck with a baby of 6 weeks old and partner that I can not afford to feed.

My question is this; should I take my child and move back to my mothers house? i know it will cause issues but do I have any other choice? I have not been able to look for work as my baby is so young but I will start soon.

Please speak your minds and tell me if I should grit my teeth and bear it or simply move back home.

Thank you in advance for your response.

Please help her.

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5 Kinds Of Food You Should Avoid At Night

There’s no need to deny yourself a late-night snack if you’re feeling hungry, but you still have to think smart when it comes to eating late.

Eating the wrong foods will disrupt your sleep while also adding a lot of unneeded calories to your day. Instead of just diving into the nearest, tastiest-looking item in your fridge, here are five
types of foods to avoid at night and why.

1. Greasy or fat-filled foods: Greasy, heavy, fatty foods not only make you feel sluggish the
next morning, but they also make your stomach work overdrive to digest all that food. Stay away
from things like fast food, nuts, ice cream, or super cheesy foods right before bed.

2. High-carb or sugary foods: A little bit of something sweet before bed may be just what you need to rest happy, but if you gobble a huge slice of chocolate cake, the spike in your blood- sugar levels could cause your energy levels to spike and plummet, disrupting your sleep in the process. Avoid cake, cookies, or other desserts as well as carby snacks like crackers or white bread and munch on an apple instead.

3. Red meat and other proteins: Like fatty foods, eating red meats late at night will sit in your stomach and make it hard for you to fall asleep while you’re digesting (red meat may
affect you the worst, but eating a large portion of chicken or pork would have the same effect as
well). You don’t have to avoid protein altogether, just make sure you go for lean and small portions, like deli-sliced turkey breast or a cup of yogurt.

4. Spicy foods: Spices may be a natural cure-all for a range of ailments, but when you’re craving something to eat late at night, step away from
the hot sauce. Spicy, peppery foods may upset your stomach, and not only that, chemicals in
spicy food can stimulate your senses, making it hard to fall asleep.

5. Big portions: Late-night snacking shouldn’t turn into a late-night meal. Keep the total
amount of calories under 200 so you won’t have any problems going and staying asleep. You’ll
also feel good knowing that you didn’t undo all your healthy eating habits of the day right before
bedtime.

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For The Married Ladies: Relationship advice To Learn From Beyonce’s New Album

Beyonce Knowles – Carter self titled album is the most talked about album of last year and will still be talked about for months to come, she has set a world record and we applaud her, The Queen
Bey.

The ‘Beyonce’ album is very sensual and sexual and frankly couples out there can learn a thing or two from it.

10 tips from Queen Bey:

1. Accept that neither of you are
perfect, accommodate shortcomings for you’re no angel either .

2. Be whatever he wants in bed, this reduces the chances that he’ll go looking for it elsewhere.

3. If you’re the shy type, try alcohol before you make love be drunk in love to unleash your beast inside.

4. Cook him dinner in your lingerie or better still, naked.

5. Have sex in unconventional places, spice it up, not sure about the back of a taxi like Beyonce though.

6. When your man is down in the
dumps, give him all your love, don’t be good to him, be great to him.

7. Know what he wants and give it to him. After being together for a while you should have mastered what he likes, be the women who knows her man and works accordingly.

8. Fight for him if you are really into them, giving up shouldn’t be your first option.

9. Don’t skip out on sex, it can be a deal breaker; don’t be one of those couples who doesn’t remember when last you had some.

10. Appreciate your partner, it doesn’t have to be the way Beyonce repeatedly praised her love for husband Jay-Z on this album but something awesome as well.

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Keep Loving

Love is just like life, its not always easy and does not always bring happiness. but when we do not stop living why should we stop loving
Some people are scared to fall in love, scared to fall fast, because every time they fall in love… it never seems to last.

Don’t give up . . . . .

Anything can happen .

This year may be your year. .
To find true love…

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Happy New Year To You All: Let’s Talk About Love

Waoh!!! We made it finally. Am so happy for us all. What a year we have been through, Goodbye to 2013. It was full of the rough parts, ups and downs but God was so faithful to you and me. Am wishing you a greater future ahead of you. Take 2014 in your hands and use it in becoming a better person. Let God rule your heart. If you are living recklessly, this is the time to stop and face God.

Now let’s talk about love

Like it or not, love is the reason why you are alive, Yes! God’s love. Do you deserve it? We don’t!!! We live our lives like there is no God but he has being faithful.

So many break ups here and there. Betrayal and lust everywhere. Its not easy to be in love, it just takes our focus and determination to make a relationship work.

Let me say this: I have been through heartbreaks too and I know what it feels like. I know what it feels like to love someone who doesn’t care for you, someone who keeps ignoring you. I know what it feels like to share your life with someone who doesn’t want to fit you in. I know what it is to smile through the pains. To be lonely in a relationship and after it all, am fine now, better and stronger.

I have made my mistakes of loving the wrong ones but how do you know them? Difficult task I guess.

I have found a new prince who would soothe me and has been making me feel loved.

God my father doesn’t forget us no matter what.

No relationship is wasted, learn from it and be stronger. The fact that someone you love picks someone else over you doesn’t make you less of who you are. It doesn’t reduce who you are. Don’t feel you were not good enough but learn from your mistakes there too.

You are special and will always be. Never reduce who you are for anybody. Don’t force yourself on anyone. Don’t manage a relationship. Let God be involved. Take the right steps before you start so you don’t regret it. Involve God, your family, pastors, mentors,get more serious and I know this year will be better for you.

To those who suffered a break up, God will bring someone better this year. For those living happy in their relationships now, I pray for a greater heights for you. I believe more marriages will work out this year and I wish you all the best.

Talking about our lives, let’s do something more creative and God-inclined this year, let’s live with more purpose and make this year a great one for us.

Let’s do it together again this year.
Let me drop my pen here now.

Be Wise! Be Real!! Be You!!!

Thanks for the votes and nominations. We got to Top 5 but I believe this year, we will bag the final win.

Much love….*Muah**Kisses**Hugs*

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Ten Things You Need to Know About The Person You’re About To Date Before The Dating Kick Off

Seeing someone new? Date intentionally. As you laugh while you chat and share decadent desserts, make sure you’re getting to know important details of each other’s lives, too. Here are 10 things you need to know about the person you’re about to date (and some good questions to ask!):

1. Faith and/or value system
Compatible values are essential in developing a healthy relationship. Discuss faith systems, both those from childhood and any current beliefs. What does he value most in life? Does she pray? What does happiness look like to your date? What factors does she evaluate when trying to make tough decisions?

2. Family of origin
Talk about your families. Is she close to her parents? Does he respect his brother’s life choices? Family, both immediate and extended, play an important role in who we’ve been and who we are. Some people aspire to having a love story like their parents, others want to avoid their parents’ mistakes. Talking about upbringing can reveal a lot about how your about to be dated sees the world and what he/she believes a healthy relationship looks like.

3. Physical expectations
If you’re ready to have sex before marriage say it because your date maybe waiting maybe after marriage — things will get awkward if these physical-relationship expectations aren’t outlined before one of you rejects the other. As awkward as these conversations may be, negotiate appropriate boundaries early on. Some relationships can’t withstand differing views on physical contact, so discuss this early and often.

4. Definition of relationship
Sure, you’re having a great time together a few times a month, but do you really know where you stand, relationship-wise? Is one of you hoping it will turn into marriage and kids while the other is commitment-phobic and enjoys seeing more than one person at a time? After a few dates, sit down to discuss your thoughts on relationships, commitment, and how you’d define where you currently are — and where you might be headed.

5. Conflict-resolving skills
It can be hard to assess how someone deals with conflict until you’ve had your first fight, but discussing previous conflicts and their subsequent resolutions can help you both understand how each of you deals with arguments. When you do have your first fight, debrief after it. Was your partner aggressive? Was he quick to apologize? To walk out the door? Did she respond to conflict with insecurity? With cruelty? As conflict is an unavoidable part of life, discovering how your date deals with it is an important part of getting to know him/her better.

6. Passions
What will make your date feel most alive? What does he daydream about during board meetings? What hobby or side project keeps her up late at night? Can your date share these passions with you? Can you support these passions and projects and get excited for them? Are your own passions compatible with his/hers?

7. Closest friends
Don’t just meet friends in a large group setting; intentionally get to know your about to be dated best pals. Who does she go to for advice on a bad day? Whose phone calls does he never fail to return? Do you fit in with the group? Can you respect the people he loves? Do you feel included and respected when thrown into the group as the new person? Can you see yourself becoming friends with them, too?

8. Social life
If you and your significant other are not spending every night together, how do you each spend those nights apart? While introverts and extroverts can definitely make it work, being honest about your social life — how often you go out, how late you party, how many quiet nights in you crave — can help you both navigate busy, merging schedules. Speak up about what you need. If you need to be doing something project-based or social to feel invigorated, share that.

9. Money matters
Is your date going to be a spender or a saver? Is the pursuit of wealth important to her? Does he aspire to living well below his means, giving most of his income away to clothing and other temporary things? How does your about to be dated make decisions regarding liabilities? Money and sex are two driving forces behind divorce. Be transparent about your own spending habits and talk about your respective relationships with money. You don’t need to disclose all your financial details before the relationship, but be aware of how you both approach payday, splurges and saving for a rainy day.

10.Dreams and goals
Are you heading in the same direction? Can you become your about to be dated greatest cheerleader and champion? Ask about your about to be dated dreams for his/her future. Does she have a five-year plan for herself? Does he secretly dream of starting his own business? Is parenthood, financial success, creative pursuits or travel on the wish list? When you’re dating someone, you’re both determining whether or not you fit into one another’s presents and futures. Sharing dreams and goals can better help you assess if you can partner with each other in a way that enables you both to thrive.

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Marriage Realities for Those New to the Game

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