Christmas is a time to celebrate the birth of christ so He has to be honoured also. As a couple you can spend quality time together :
Shop for your relatives together. Make a big show of separating for a while so you can find her a gift even if you don’t find something, it’ll show her you’re putting effort into the process. The magic of gift giving can be slightly diminished if the recipient knows that you at least took the effort to put on clothing and leave the apartment to get it. Get something nice wrapped in a box that makes It impossible to determine what’s inside. Let her
shake it if she wants. Make something to go with it— a card, a love letter, a rose etc
Watch Christmas movies together. Say, “[Girlfriend], you’re such a blessing.” Talk about old times and how better you want to be. Show some love with gestures. Be romantic.
Celebrate once with her family. Greet respectfully
well her mum and dad. Bring wine, It’s more about the gesture than quantity or quality. Allow her to instruct you on the wine purchasing decision. Wear a tie, because it won’t kill you. Make sure you can maintain eye contact, especially with her Dad, even if he looks like he might want to shoot you. Go to church with them If they want you to, and enjoy the moment
Celebrate once with your family If you’re both
comfortable with her coming home to Mom and Dad. Make her feel welcome, and thank her for
being the reason you are happy.
Apologize to her for their thorough inquiries into her entire life story. If you can, convey this with a look while they’re conversing.
Words work, too. If your family is old fashioned, set her up in your bedroom. Tuck her into your bed and point out some of the stuff from your childhood, if your Mom hasn’t already turned your former digs into a “craft room.” You always take the couch, or guest room. Show her things from your kiddies days, make her smile.
Just before you go to sleep, alone or with her, feel the happiness that comes with having a
significant other at this time of year. Hope holiday season after holiday season is similar to this one.
Know that even if they aren’t, you will still have this memory.
Sharing gifts is a sign of love. It could be physical or in gestures. Just show love and have a sour christmas.
You can also visit the orphanage together. Just make sure you put a smile on someone’s face too.
Merry christmas to you all.