Relationships needs major care just like we care for our cars and other valuable items. Let’s look at 5 ways we can fix our relationships:
1: “Stop all shame, blame, and criticism. Instead ask for what you want in a clear, specific, and positive manner, and express appreciation for your partner. To elaborate: Men need to feel competent—that they make a contribution and that it is noticed. They like to be told what ‘behaviour’ makes you happy. Since men tend to express affection by doing things, you should interpret their actions as love. When men know what to do and are acknowledged for it, they
tend to keep doing it.”
2: “Change from a critical habit of mind, in which
you’re very involved with your partner’s mistakes, to a positive one, in which you catch him doing
something right. Notice one small thing, and express genuine appreciation. That will change
your interaction patterns from escalating negativity and criticism to building a culture of appreciation.”
3: “When your relationship starts to break down,
you need “AAA”: an Apology, Affection, and a promise of Action. You say you’re sorry for what
you’ve said or done to hurt or disappoint your partner. You immediately offer a hug, a kiss—
some meaningful gesture of warmth. You pledge to do something that matters to your partner (‘From now on, I will…’). And, of course, you stick to that. This whole AAA thing can take two
minutes, but in that time you’ve healed the past, built a bridge to the present, and created hope
for your future.”
4: Read books, attend seminars, listen to messages on how to improve your relationships. Learn something new everyday. Be interested in making things work at all times. A relationship don’t last because it was meant to but because two people worked together to make it last.
5: “All relationships grow a bit stale as time goes by, and the longer-lasting they are, the staler they can get. The best thing you can do is pump in some fresh air. A long weekend in a romantic hideaway would be ideal, some quality time together can help. Don’t tell anyone where you are, just do some meaningful things together. Talk more about the future and the growth of the relationship. When you get home, you’ll find your relationship has acquired ruddy cheeks.”
——Most importantly, learn your love language and express it within yourselves.
Be Wise! Be Real!! Be You!!!
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