By Dr Evans
Most therapists will tell you the reasons relationship fail are money, sex, and communication, in that order. I disagree. I believe
the reasons for the failure of most relationships are what I call the A, B, double C’s:
A = Lack of Awareness: Lack of Awareness or an attitude of, “It’s all about you — not me.” These people are into blaming, making others wrong and they seldom analyze what it is they are doing to contribute to their situation.
B = Lack of understanding about Boundaries: Lack of Boundaries or lack of understanding of how they work. This issue is critical and this is the very reason most couples don’t make it. Solid Boundaries help give us a clear understanding of what our responsibilities are and are not. Boundaries prevent us from becoming co-dependent or making others responsible for our good feelings about our selves.
C = Lack of Commitment: This is the individual who is “doing time” in relationships, but not doing work on him or herself. These people act disinterested, disconnected to issues or process,
and are in relationships but not really present to or for each other. These people usually get their
own way through manipulation, shaming, disapproval, fear, intimidation, control, interrogation, withdrawal or dishonesty.
D = Communication Problems: When you are
able to communicate, these and all other issues – sex, money problems, or any other problems — get dealt with effectively.
After reading, analyze your relationships before it falls.
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