The Mindset Of Men Ladies Need To Understand

Ladies feel they know a lot about men enough to get down with them at all times but you may be wrong.

Men feel women don’t know anything about how they think or act, hence can’t satisfy them completely.

Men always have this Ego, you may call it pride but I think that’s what makes them a man.

A typical man has a lot on his mind than you think. A man feels he is capable and can be classified as a real man when he : Has A Good title( talking about who he is), Does something worth it( His job or business) and How much he makes( the reward he gets).

A man always puts it in his mind to achieve these three things before he can fully concentrate on a man. A man always want to feel on top, to be respected, to be supported too. He always want to provide, secure, protect you or his family. So he is always looking for a good source of income, create a good name and personality for himself. After that is done, he creates time for a woman of substance to come in.

Unlike women who feel they are incomplete without a man that can fend for them, a man feels complete the minute he can fully be capable and then settles with a woman. A man always love to be respected, broke or not. Don’t be surprised when he changes a lady to a better one when he raises his standard ( now he knows what he wants).

So before you get in too deep with him. Understand that he wants to feel complete and doesn’t need unnecessary pressure on how to love. His love will come when he feels its time. You can’t force a man to love you and he never wants to feel little than he is.

Am not saying a broke guy can’t love genuinely but don’t be surprised if he later changes and looks for a greener pasture before coming back to that love. Am not also saying that its only a rich guy that can give you full attention but if he is for real, he would have more time to think of you than adding all the three plus you. Hope you get my point.

Ladies, learn to respect men. They could be funny at times. Make sure you get your bearing in his heart before you fall too deep.

Be Wise! Be Real!! Be You!!!


Leave comments. Tell me things about men you feel I should know as a lady.


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