How Your Background Can Affect Your Relationship

Our backgrounds can really affect our lifestyle and mentality. It can really affect the way we understand ,love or share. Most of us are mostly guided by the way our parent behave. We conceive the right and the wrong part from what we see.

Its not really our fault sometimes when we cup some ideas in our heads about how to treat a man/woman. We are only victims of our environment display of love.

Some men believe its right to beat up a woman because the father does it with no challenge from anyone. Some women feel they have to remain housewives for life since that’s what their mothers did too.

All this ideas form our basic way of life in interacting with people.

One thing that also affect our mentality about love and people is our culture and tradition. We are guided by rules. A woman must do this or that when her husband dies. A man must bring this and that to have a woman as his wife. All this culture has developed a sense of rite within us. Somethings needs to be changed.

We need to understand the concept of love. It should not be based on what your parent did especially when they were not good role models in the act of love. That’s why as parents, you need to caution what your children see you do. You need to learn how to control anger, urge, feelings, emotions etc in the presence of your children.

Don’t be misled!!!!

Acquiring knowledge is important too. Read books on relationships. Listen to messages. Get information on how a godly relationship should be like. Don’t make the mistakes your parent made. Except if they have had a model like love life you want to emulate. Think about your future. Don’t let the media(movies, internet, novels etc) teach you the way to deception. Get useful,healthy, relevant, godly informations on how to have a successful relationship. You can read on what men need for a successful relationship here Click Here

Be Wise! Be Real!! Be You!!!

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About Nike Adedokun

Hello friends! I am so excited to meet you. I am Nike Adedokun, a Relationship and sexuality Coach. I help people build healthy relationships, emotionally balanced minds and sexually purified lives through consultancy, strategies and trainings. As a Master practitioner of NLP and Results coach, I deliberately reposition singles emotionally, mentally and sexually to enable them attract the kind of partner that would give them a purposeful relationship. Presently, I host great minds on a WhatsApp Class, The Mind Shift Network Masterclass. It's a class that centres around building healthy hearts, minds and sexuality. If you want to join us, just send a mail to with your details and you are in! Please do navigate through the various posts, podcasts, store and testimonials. Glad to have you here. Don't forget to follow me on twitter @NikeAdedokun. Choose to live healthy and stay purified!
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One Response to How Your Background Can Affect Your Relationship

  1. Sheyhun Temi says:

    Nice one Nikki.God bless u for dis.

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