7 Bitter Truths You Must Consider About Yourself Before Entering A Relationship(Part 1)

There are some things you need to understand about yourself and the person you are about to go into a relationship with too. Don’t let us be selfish, we are not so perfect, then why do we go in quest for perfection. I want to highlight 7 things we need to observe about ourselves and our future partner.

1. Do You Love Yourself?:
Love is a feeling of tender care, feelings, emotions, kindness, acceptance, joy, sacrifice and the list goes on and on. Let me start like this: “Do you love yourself enough?” Am sure you would be puzzled about that question, because now you are like why won’t you love yourself. The fact there is that we are yet to be satisfied with the way we look etc. We hate our eyes, height, size, background etc, that means you are not comfortable with everything about yourself. You wish to be someone else. If this is happening with you, why then do you search for a person with a perfect body and shape (appearance). If you don’t love yourself enough, how can you love someone else? Please ask yourself well again, if you wish to change something physical or internal about you, then you may have a problem with accepting your partner the way they are too. Love yourself and get ready to love your partner too.

2. Have you discovered Your Purpose?: Have you tried finding out what you were born to do? Do you still waste your life with youth exuberances? You are confused right? What has God deposited in you to touch the world? Find that out before jumping into a relationship. You need to be with someone that shares that dream with you. Someone that can appreciate that part of you and help you to be productive with it. Stop wasting your time on relationships that takes away your vision, body, time, passion. Forget sex till you are married, stop being deceived. Focus on being a better person first. If you need money to keep your relationship alive,then get it first. Stop being confused and get your life in your hands. When you are so sure of your purpose, then you can go in search of someone that can make that dream of you come alive too. That’s why you must allow God to pick the right one for you. Let him direct your relationship. Stop being in relationships for fun, sex, money etc.

3. Can You Accept Individual Differences?: Before you claim to be in love, ask yourself if you can accept your partner’s differences. Individual differences is bound to happen. You are not alike. Stop feeling that you will find someone that reasons or acts like you do. Nothing like such. We are different from different backgrounds. Get ready to accept the flaws of your future partner. If you are, then you are ready to trend.

4. Do You Have The Spirit Of Oneness And Motivation?: A relationship is a ship that involves two or more people relating with each other as one. Now, let’s come back to the two of you, you need to be able to think different and conclude as one. Motivate yourself, encourage yourself. Help yourself to grow. If you know you can’t help your partner to progress or you can’t share your dreams, desires, properties, goals together with your partner, don’t bother creating a bond. Be ready to act like one.

This article will be continued in another post, which will be the part 2 of this post. Watch out for it. Will keep you posted…………

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About Nike Adedokun

Hello friends! I am so excited to meet you. I am Nike Adedokun, a Relationship and sexuality Coach. I help people build healthy relationships, emotionally balanced minds and sexually purified lives through consultancy, strategies and trainings. As a Master practitioner of NLP and Results coach, I deliberately reposition singles emotionally, mentally and sexually to enable them attract the kind of partner that would give them a purposeful relationship. Presently, I host great minds on a WhatsApp Class, The Mind Shift Network Masterclass. It's a class that centres around building healthy hearts, minds and sexuality. If you want to join us, just send a mail to adenikeadedokun@gmail.com with your details and you are in! Please do navigate through the various posts, podcasts, store and testimonials. Glad to have you here. Don't forget to follow me on twitter @NikeAdedokun. Choose to live healthy and stay purified!
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5 Responses to 7 Bitter Truths You Must Consider About Yourself Before Entering A Relationship(Part 1)

  1. Thanks Nike..its a wonderful advice. Just wanted to ask a question… D aspect of finding your purpose, are there practical steps of goin about it?

  2. nikziead says:

    Discovering your purpose is more like observing your talents, your God given gift, something you do easily, something you can reach out to the world with. There is a difference between career( Your education line), business( a business you ventured into) and your talent( either writing, speaking, singing, teaching, administering,etc). That’s talent is your purpose. An example is this mount zion films, the husband and wife are into the same vision and have been able to achieve a lot with their drama ministry). Just find out what God has deposited in you to reach to the world and make sure your partner supports you too.

  3. Adedeji says:

    From the very first line to the end, I concurred with everything there and they’re really great jobs you’ve done over there. Can’t wait for the 2nd part. You’ll surely keep me posted now??!!

  4. AMAKA says:

    Thanks 4 this beautifull article ,it really change my mood, my attitude & motivate

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