The Truths About Relationship Break Ups

Break ups can be so depressing but yet they can happen everyday. Like it or not, an heartbreak can either make you or break you. It depends on how you take it. Most break-ups are more like a blessing in disguise. While some are just the reward of our past waywardness. It all depends on where you fall.

The truth is that,its not easy to get over a break up. It can really work you up. What makes a break up more painful is the effects of the relationship on us. More like, how long you have been with him or her. The kinds of things you share. The bond and closeness. How deep you were and the likes.

A break up can change your mentality on love. You would feel its the end of the world. You would feel like everything has crumbled. You would wish you could turn back the hands of time. Yeah I know!!!!! Your uncontrollable tears!!!!!!! The memories, the imaginations. The beautiful moments and how they have all ended. What happened? What could have caused it? That’s all that comes to your mind. You begin to grow this sudden hatred for the opposite sex. Yeah, a lot of things comes to your mind.

The fact is that sometimes some break-ups are for your benefits. Maybe you are just with the wrong person and someone better is coming your way. It could also be for you to gain experiences you would need in future. Some are just as a result of our mistakes, we just need to learn.

The truth is whichever way it comes, let’s always look at the positive sides of it even in our tears. I would advise that while in a relationship, don’t get involved with things that could cause more pain like loosing your virginity or sex,wait for your husband. Don’t also do abortions, stop your education., spend all your income, or borrow large amounts etc all these things could affect you if things get rough. Always be wise.

The morale here is that heartbreaks are painful but look at the positive sides too. Learn from it and move on. May God heal your heart if you are going through one now. If you are going through an heartbreak now,click here to read on how to get over it : How To Cope With An Heartbreak.

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About Nike Adedokun

Hello friends! I am so excited to meet you. I am Nike Adedokun, a Relationship and sexuality Coach. I help people build healthy relationships, emotionally balanced minds and sexually purified lives through consultancy, strategies and trainings. As a Master practitioner of NLP and Results coach, I deliberately reposition singles emotionally, mentally and sexually to enable them attract the kind of partner that would give them a purposeful relationship. Presently, I host great minds on a WhatsApp Class, The Mind Shift Network Masterclass. It's a class that centres around building healthy hearts, minds and sexuality. If you want to join us, just send a mail to with your details and you are in! Please do navigate through the various posts, podcasts, store and testimonials. Glad to have you here. Don't forget to follow me on twitter @NikeAdedokun. Choose to live healthy and stay purified!
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2 Responses to The Truths About Relationship Break Ups

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