If You Don’t Drive It Well, Am out!!!

Its a major factor that if you don’t run your relationship well, then it could halt it. Using “if you don’t drive it well, am out” is simply talking about the fact that some people’s likes or wants in a relationship is one side. A guy wants a lady to do some set of things or he could back out or a lady wants a continuous process of a thing from her guy and complains if he doesn’t too.

A relationship is about two people and not one. Why would you give your partner guidelines on how to behave like we must have sex 3times a week(without being married yet) or you must call me everyday or let’s say you must say this or that everytime. Am not saying its wrong to tell your lover what you want but you have to discuss it together and agree on it.
Communication is a two way thing. You don’t set a rule and expect the other to do it at all cost. What if its not convenient? What happened to Agreement? There is power in agreement. You don’t set rules or give orders. It should not be a threat.

Why would you order for a close of facebook account not minding if she likes that or not. Why would you tell him to stop talking to his female friends. Its simply called lack of trust. We sometimes impose our selfish desires on our partners. People are not to be enslaved in a relationship. I really don’t want to say more. I know there is something about our relationship we may not be happy about. I know there are some kind of rules you are not happy about. Why not communicate about it. Resolve it and be free. You should be free with your partner not rigid.

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About Nike Adedokun

Hello friends! I am so excited to meet you. I am Nike Adedokun, a Relationship and sexuality Coach. I help people build healthy relationships, emotionally balanced minds and sexually purified lives through consultancy, strategies and trainings. As a Master practitioner of NLP and Results coach, I deliberately reposition singles emotionally, mentally and sexually to enable them attract the kind of partner that would give them a purposeful relationship. Presently, I host great minds on a WhatsApp Class, The Mind Shift Network Masterclass. It's a class that centres around building healthy hearts, minds and sexuality. If you want to join us, just send a mail to adenikeadedokun@gmail.com with your details and you are in! Please do navigate through the various posts, podcasts, store and testimonials. Glad to have you here. Don't forget to follow me on twitter @NikeAdedokun. Choose to live healthy and stay purified!
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