I have been in a relationship with this guy for two years now. Am a lady of 23years and he is 28years. He has been promising to marry me next year, after getting a job.
For this past 2 years, he has been jobless kind of but he goes to his uncle’s shop to train on fashion designing. He is a graduate but no job( you know our economy). All this while, I have been the one funding the relationship. Am not bragging but to be more clear, let me say I buy clothes, airtime, foodstuff and even give him some allowance. He is always asking for money and also sex(he can’t do without it). Since I have a good job at least, I always try to be of help.
He is not always interested in talking about my visions because I am into singing and I aim to be a good singer someday. Whenever we see, he would just say he has missed me and should jump to bed straight. I have aborted twice but he keeps reassuring me of marriage. Now its all about my body, money, I don’t even know what to think.
It would have been better if he sits down to think of a business he can do or plan for his future but all he does is on how to keep helping his brother in shop even with the little pay. He keeps saying things will get better when he gets a good job in an oil company,(as if his fathers are the owners of the place) how he will buy me many things and spoil me. He does not even want to start small at all.
Am just tired because am not getting younger and my parent are complaining of his lack of purpose.
Do you think he would become better when he has a good job or business because he keeps saying he is under pressure, he can’t think straight.
Someone else has been pestering me for my hand in marriage but I don’t want to betray him but I really need counsell now before I loose my chance. I love him so much and I believe in a better future.
Please I need your advice.
Ok friends, I need you to help her here. What do you think she should do?
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