Sometimes I marvel at the way ladies fight over their man even when the man involved doesn’t seem interested. Why waste your time on a fight that’s not yours?
Men are the ones that go out looking for a better mistress. You don’t expect the other lady to know that you exist. Even if she now manages to find out. It is only a decent and God fearing lady that will quit the relationship with your man. Most will just continue even the mind of daring you at a later time. They don’t care what happens, they are ever ready.
You are in charge of your relationship but not in charge of the man’s mind. Even if you challenge him about it. He could lie about it or admit and beg for forgiveness. Even after pleading,he could either stop the game or continue at your back with an holy face.
What are you supposed to do then?
Men are beings that have the normal tendency to cheat. They are mostly not contented,only few stick to the 1-1 game. So no point killing yourself or the other lady. Its either you communicate your feelings about it with full humility and keep praying for him. Either way round, some men will continue. You need to understand that its only God that can change his heart and not you.
Especially for the married, you can either forgive him and keep praying for a change or you let go to avoid heartattack or stress. At least the bible says you can only go on divorce on reasons of adultery which the man has committed. Save yourself the stress and keep your life. Your fighting or nagging will only contribute to it.
The bottom line here is that, don’t fight other ladies because of your man. Its not worth it. Let the man prove his worth and show you some respect. Ciao.
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