I am Sandra, 24, based in Delta state. I have been in a relationship with this guy(Matthew) for 3years now. We agreed not to have sex till marriage and we have been holding up together well. Though it hasn’t been easy coping but we are alright with it. He is a nice guy and God fearing too. My parents,pastor and friends know him with me already likewise his own side too. We have agreed to marry late next year.
I was talking with my friends one day when they asked me if I was so sure that my boyfriend wasn’t sleeping with someone else. I argued with them that he wasn’t that kind of guy. So they advised that we should test him. Due to this, one of them agreed to seduce him and see if he will fall. Though I knew it was a wrong thing to do and I know am stupid for letting it happen but I was so curious to know the truth. I really wanted to know how far he could take it so we fixed a date for it.
My friend went ahead to do it and came back saying nothing happened. I was so happy that he didn’t fall and he never mentioned it too.
One day,while coming back from the market, I decided to pay him a surprise visit and on getting there, I kept knocking for minutes but got no response. I felt the loud music playing from his deck wouldn’t let him hear the door so I decided to open with my own key(the one he gave me) and I met them right in the sitting room not room having sex on the sofa.
I was shivering and all I did was to scream beyond the noise of the music. They stopped and saw me and he immediately tried begging but I pushed him away and looked at my friend with a scorn look and ran out. He tried following but I quickly stopped a bike.
He came to my house begging, saying she forced him and threatened to set him up if he doesn’t give in. That he was scared and didn’t want to lose him,so he had to give in with an intention to set her up later too.
Am so confused now,my friend has betrayed me and she is saying that it was his own fault too. I know I did the wrong thing but am not myself again.
Please what do I do now? Should I accept him back?
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