Why Do Guys Wait For So Long Before Realizing That A Woman Is Not Meant For Them?

From issues I have resolved to stories I have heard, I have noticed that a guy would date a lady for so long only to realize later on they are not compatible. Why didn’t he discover that while being friends? They are not even always interested in being friends. They may say women pretend right? Why didn’t you find methods to tease her and know her deep down? There are ways to do this though. Can’t it even be noticeable after a year or less? Why should you later break up with a lady after 3years or more all in the name of she is not my type, she is not spiritual, she can’t plan well, she may get too fat, she nags too much etc. What is love if you can’t accept her flaws.

A lady decides to date a guy because she feels she is okay with him and she doesn’t mind settling down too but a Man goes in blindly only to start the observations from now till years to come. Let’s stop all this break ups. Its killing some people. Ladies too do these but it is common with Men.

This is my own view to it. I want us to discuss this. Why does it happen like that? Please drop your comments below.

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3 Responses to Why Do Guys Wait For So Long Before Realizing That A Woman Is Not Meant For Them?

  1. Asibe oluchi says:

    Some ladies pretend a lot,dey pretend to b God fearin,patient,unmaterialistic and so on. Guys just flow with wat dey c nd we can’t pretend foreva so d girl starts showin her tru colours,he starts hatin her gradually,sometyms diz guys warn before takin actions but diz ladies just kip bein sturbborn. A responsible guy wud not date a girl for 3,4 nd 5yrs nd dump her,but guys dat flirt a mnth is enuf for datin nd dumpin. I’ld advice ladies to b demselves wen wit a guy dan over impressin dem with pretence..

  2. Most times men go for ladies not for committment but for the thrill of having a relationship and all that accrues. Usually they may start to develop feelings for that lady, Βut men will always look out for the their ideal woman no matter how long it takes them.

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