Check out : How to be a man (Part 4)- Handling your relationship


Use you inner gentleman. Your inner gentleman
tells you the things to do that you know you
should — but sometimes are too lazy — to do:
Paying for dates, unless the lady in question
views the act as some barbaric throwback to a
more misogynistic time.
Treat with caution.
Opening doors, helping into chairs, and saying
“please” and “thank you.” Generally putting the
lady in question ahead of yourself out of
Doing domestic duties. Some men who are
already in long-term relationships shirk their
domestic duties: forgetting to take out the
trash, do the dishes, change the diapers. Real
men know that they must share in domestic
duties, as unpleasant as they may be.
Being a gracious loser. Man are naturally
competitive, making this a tough one for some.
Accept defeat with the same grace that you
accept victory. Easier said than done.
Don’t kiss and tell. Men love the chase of
romance, but too often get lured into bragging
about the conquest. Don’t fall victim to the notion
that if you don’t brag about it, it didn’t happen.
Success in love speaks loud enough for itself. A
quiet confidence will perhaps even suggest to
your friends that you’re a regular Lothario, even if
you’re not.
Always treat your significant other with
respect . A simple list of dos and don’ts:

Do :
Listen to what they have to say.
Forgive them when they make a simple
Follow through on what you say you’ll do.
Treat them the same way you’d like to be

Don’t :
Hold them to unrealistic expectations.
Manipulate them to get whatever you want.
Treat them as an object instead of a special person.
Be the man at all times.

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About Nike Adedokun

Hello friends! I am so excited to meet you. I am Nike Adedokun, a Relationship and sexuality Coach. I help people build healthy relationships, emotionally balanced minds and sexually purified lives through consultancy, strategies and trainings. As a Master practitioner of NLP and Results coach, I deliberately reposition singles emotionally, mentally and sexually to enable them attract the kind of partner that would give them a purposeful relationship. Presently, I host great minds on a WhatsApp Class, The Mind Shift Network Masterclass. It's a class that centres around building healthy hearts, minds and sexuality. If you want to join us, just send a mail to with your details and you are in! Please do navigate through the various posts, podcasts, store and testimonials. Glad to have you here. Don't forget to follow me on twitter @NikeAdedokun. Choose to live healthy and stay purified!
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