Relationships are bound to have issues but settling them is the most important things. You really need to get it right. We are all human and we will always get on each other but a sincere apology can make it all go away. We talked recently on how to apologize to your boyfriend Click Here To Read On How To Apologize To Your Boyfriend
Men, you need to get one secret about ladies. A lady might not be so angry,yet she will act like she is so angry. That’s a secret coming from me. Its not in all cases though,but there are times she just needs your pampering which is normal. If you have really offended her, then you need to follow this steps:
1. Be ready to say “Sorry” and also to explain yourself: Ladies really love to get explanations from their boyfriends. Yeah!!!,she wants to know why you did it, what you were thinking and the likes. Its not just saying sorry but also explaining yourself. Ladies really wants to know why you did it.
2. Let your “Sorry” be sincere and honest: When you are apologising to a lady, you really need to show it in your expression that you are sorry. Start with “I am sorry” and then other gestures. Don’t try to play the Macho game with her. You need to mean it and let her know you really do mean it. Use any means to prove this to her.
3. If she asks you for space, give her: If your girlfriend asks you to leave her alone. Give her the space, you can even ask her when she would like to talk. Be remorseful in everything you do.
4.When She Is Ready To Talk, Be well explanatory: When your girlfriend gives you the time to talk, make sure you explain bit by bit on how it went and why you did it like in step 1. Show her that you are really willing to change.
5. Give her time to respond: After you have explained yourself, if she is still feeling the hurt,give her time to respond. Let her know you are not rushing her but you are willing to let her calm down.
I believe at then end of this, she would be willing to forgive you. You can even go ahead and give her nice gifts or make some nice gestures to facilitate the apology. If you really hurt her, why not go on your knees and let her know how sorry you are. If it goes beyond a day, try getting her a flower or something romantic e.g a teddy bear or something she loves. If you can write a poem too,m why not try it. Just make sure that at then end, you are going to be sincere about it and you are willing to change too.
1. Don’t shout at her unnecessarily while apologising.
2. Don’t try to defend yourself too much. Take the blame while explaining yourself.
3. Don’t laugh at her at any point. You will only make her feel like a fool.
4. Don’t pressurise her, just give her time. She will call you back.
5. Don’t try to revenge on any act.
6. Don’t bring up the issue again after reconciliation.
7. Don’t damn her while she talks too much or express herself, just listen and give a remorseful answer.
I believe this has helped a lot. Do you have other means you think can help or do you agree with it all. Drop your comments below.
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