There are some things that we might not take too serious but it can destroy marriages. The Marriage killers are:
1. Incompatibility: How well do you flow together. Find out.
2. Invitation of third party:
Settle your fights yourself. Don’t bring in friends or family members.
3. Selfishness: Don’t be too selfish about all things. Always be patient in everything you do too. Its not about one person but the two of you.
4. Dreaming of a perfect marriage: Stop fantasising about the best marriage, there would be fights, issues but you need to make effort to make it work.
5. Poor understanding of husband/wife roles: You need to understand your roles very well and implement them. Nobody would come and perform your roles. Love your wife and women too should be submissive.
6. Bad Language Never insult each other. Respect is the key.
7. Consistent Nagging: Nagging is one of the things Men hate in Women. Its very bad. Communicate politely. Nagging can really make a man depressed.
8. Cheating/Betrayal: Men especially fall victims here and some women too. No cheating!!!! It kills marriages.
9. Physical Abuse: This is not good at all. A man should never raise his hands on his woman no matter what.
10. Weak Handling of Natural Marital problems Its very necessary to put on the armour maturity and God’s wisdom in marriage. Handle things well to make it work.
11. Faulty foundation: The beginning of marriage matters. If you were trapped down with money or pregnancy etc, I hope true love will grow. Accept it and make it work. How did the relationship start? Accidental pregnancy, beauty, money!
12. Bad prayer life: Without God, the relationship cannot work. You need to always create your family altar and let God direct you.
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