Must Read: A True Article On What Happens After A Guy Finally Gets The Lady..Read Here…….

This is a common saga with relationships. The rate at which men go to get your heart ladies. Aint saying they all do this but most men usually do this though. I saw this somewhere, it was so touching and I felt I should share it out…….Why do Men change after the final yes……Read More Below……

Remember the very first minute you set your eyes on her and just could’nt let her out of your sight?
Remember when you first started talking to her?
Remember when you’d make her smile all the time?
Remember when you woke up everyday to send her a good morning text?
Remember when you would post about her?
Remember when you’d text her random things?
Remember when you first told her “I love you”?
Remember when you made her believe that you were the one?
Remember when she told you she loved you for the first time?
Remember when she told her friends and family about you?
Remember when you use to call her beautiful all the time just to make her smile?????

What went wrong? Why adopt dis double standard of chauvinist males?????

The double standards of some men:

If she argues with him, she’s looking for a fight; but if she’s quiet, he’ll say she doesn’t care. If she calls him, she’s too clingy; but if he calls her, she is expected to drop whatever she’s doing and be
happy he called at all. If she doesn’t love him, he’ll try to win her; but when she does love him, he’ll take her for granted. If she doesn’t sleep with him in the first few dates, she’s a tease; but if she does, she’s a slut. If she tells him her problems, he’ll tell her to stop bitching about everything; but if she doesn’t, he’ll say she doesn’t trust him. If she offers him advice, she’s a nag or a know-it-all; but if he offers her advice, it’s because he cares. If she breaks a promise, he’ll never trust her again; but if
he breaks one, it’s because he had no choice and she needs to be more understanding. If she cheats,
it’s over; but if he cheats, it was just a mistake and she has to give him another chance.

Seriously do u need to assume such stupid beliefs just because u’re the man here? If a fellow man
treats your sister of cousin or any female relative of yours in same manner, all hell will let lose but if you do it to someone’s daughter, sister, niece, friend, aunt, it does’nt really matter, you are simply being the polygamous man Nature made you to be. What
u think it’s only your own female relatives that got blood flowing in their veins? (Well if that’s what you think, then i must say your stupidity is just like peak milk….it’s in you and ur own mumu na government approved)…….It makes no sense at all.

You don’t text her anymore.
You talk to other females and don’t bother having a
word with her. You don’t care about her anymore, for reasons best known to you alone.
You don’t give her the attention she needs. Why did you waste all that time making her happy and all, just to make her fall on her face? She bent her back to make you happy, but once you got her you stopped doing the things you did to get her? She doesn’t understand. She doesn’t know why you did this. She cries at night. She goes to school depressed. And yet she still ignores the nice males trying to be in her life. . . . .Why?
Because of you. She really did love you. She listens to the songs you
dedicated to her over and over. And she thinks why does she deserve this? I find it so fucked up that you can just stop doing the things you did to get her. She feels un-wanted and not special anymore. She tries to make you see reason with her on why
you should’nt throwaway what you both share, but NO u won’t listen. She has no choice so she gives up. She finally moves on.

But till this day she still thinks about you.
The date you asked her out..
The first call..
The first hug.. First Everything.
She’ll never forget you.
But somehow you’ve forgotten
her!
You left her without a reason, its cool…..just don’t
dare come back into her life with an excuse!

Was so touching……..but as touching as it could be…….I just believe sometimes relationship break up for you to meet the right one out there. They were just not the right one but to be sincere,this is what keeps happening today.

So Men watch it o……..

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