There are various ways to show your affection, some are more obvious than others and the way
you approach this will depend on how openly affectionate you like to be personally. Affection is close to but not the same as intimacy––Affection is about openly displaying that you care about this person and can be shown
any time of day or night, publicly or privately. Think about how you like to show affection to people you care about, such as holding hands, touching an arm, quick kisses on the cheek, a hug, stroking hair, supportive words, mentioning how great someone is in front of other people, etc.
Men sometimes like it when a girl
gives them a pet name like “Baby”
or “Sweetheart.” Try not to overdo
this, however. It can be a major
turn-off if you call them “Mr.
Cuddle-Bear”, especially in public.
Of all things, good communication
is the vital part of any relationship, so make sure that he knows how much you like him.
Regular lovey-dovey texts and
emails can be a plus, but too many will become overwhelming and you may seem clingy. These types of things do show you’re into him, and you want it to last forever, but don’t come on so much that you scare him!
Don’t be afraid to be
seductive. Most men find it irresistible when a girl is sexy, classy and confident. Confidence means being happy within your own skin; you will exude this without trying if you are accepting of yourself and feel secure about your own worth. You don’t have
to force yourself to be the most
popular, bubbly personality if that isn’t your style; rather, be the best you on show by taking good care of yourself and trusting that you’re worth his attention.
Give him gifts.
When you’re in a relationship, it’s fun to give each other small gifts. Guys love to get presents and giving him one shows that he
means a lot to you. Don’t overdo it —
just give him a gift when you’re feeling loving and want to let him know how much he means to you. You don’t want him to think you’re trying to buy his affection.
Make him something special.
A nice delicacy, a written poem etc something creative that reflects your personality, so that whenever he looks at it, he’ll think of you and smile. If you’re the musical type, or play an instrument, feel free to play him a song or two (bonus points if you play a song you wrote yourself).
Don’t get too jealous.
You should be loving, but not to the point where you start seeing red the second your boyfriends talks to, or even just mentions, another girl. Nothing will turn your boyfriend off faster that a
girlfriend who is so insecure that she can’t stand the other thought of other women existing in the universe. Your boyfriend will appreciate you even more if you’re nice to his female friends instead of talking about how ugly or annoying any girl you see is. If he’s out with his friends, don’t
text him every two seconds to
make sure he’s not talking to other girls. This will only make him see how little you trust him.
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