These are some form of rules that applies to people chatting online. There are some things you should not do with strangers or people you meet online. It applies to various media such as facebook,BBM,Twitter, 2go, etc.
1. DON’T FAKE YOURSELF:
Of all of the dos and don’ts of flirting with a guy over texting, this is the golden rule: Just Be Yourself. Even though you are not face-to-face, you want this guy to get to know the real you. Make sure that you are not putting up a façade just because you think a guy will like you more. It is easy
to act differently when you are texting, but make sure you stay true to yourself. Guys, no need bragging about that you have except you want to become a lucky MAGA for her. No need telling your secrets too.
2. DON’T TRY TO GET TOO PERSONAL QUICK: When chatting, you have to create a friend zone first. Get friendly. Use a nice approach. Gain the trust and confidence of the person you are talking to first before flirting. Don’t start asking for too many personal information on the first day of chat. Mind your communication language too.
3. AVOID THE USE OF PET NAMES: This is very common with guys. I still saw a guy correcting his pals over this on facebook recently. Don’t start a chat with ” hey baby,sexy whatsup,pretty mi,how far etc” Ladies don’t like this at all. You need to be formal until you get that free. Give a good and matured ,I would rather use a responsible approach with a lady because you don’t know her yet or even the kind of person she is.
4. DON’T READ TOO MUCH INTO IT
Don’t spend hours on end thinking
what he meant when he said “see you later.” You will drive yourself crazy if you over analyse every little detail down to how long it takes for him to text you back. Just as you wouldn’t read into every detail when flirting in person, don’t get too obsessed with the
details of texting. Don’t get too aggressive with people too. If you don’t like their texts or a BC, just ignore or correct politely. No need getting too harsh over it. Its all about respecting people and yourself too. Chatting is not your world.
5. DON’T SEND SEXY PICTURES: Don’t try to impress anyone with your half nude pictures. Be careful of how you give out pictures too. Don’t be surprised if you see it online making raves. You caused it. Plain and simple, do not send compromising pictures. It might seem like a fun and flirty way to get a guy’s attention, but it will come back to haunt you in the
end. You can’t trust the guy to keep the pictures to himself and you can’t control where those images will end up. Just avoid putting yourself in any compromising situation and never send racy pictures to anyone. I remember a very popular artiste*won’t mention name* asking me to send him sexy pictures, I simply smiled and told him I wasn’t part of those desperate ladies out there that would send such pictures just to cling with them so he should respect our friendship. He simply smiled and said yes ma. Am sure he realized I wasn’t such a cheap girl to fall for his fame and money. That’s how you should respect your dignity too.
6. NO UNNECESSARY PINGS: This is for those using blackberry phones. You don’t need to Ping always to get their attention. They may not like it. Start with a usual chat line. Respect people with this. Ladies naturally don’t like this.
7. DON’T FORCE DATES: Don’t try to force a lady on a date with you. Don’t force yourself to see her too. Make sure she is comfortable to see you too. I prefer guys going to see the ladies first to avoid any issues.
8. STOP LOOKING FOR FAVOURS: Especially ladies, don’t start asking for money with tricks or the other. Respect yourself and be independent. You don’t have to ask everytime except the person is willing to give because most ladies have turned online chat to a business venture making money. You may not like the result at the end. Let’s be careful please.
These are the only rules I would give for now. Still making more research. What else do you want to drop or what do you think?
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