Sam Adeyemi once said that:”a relationship can do four things to your life; they can:
1. Add to your life.
2. Subtract from you
3. Multiply You or
4. Divide you and break you into pieces.”
I will basically explain these in my own terms. I agree with all what he said. Picking them one by one:
1. A relationship can add to your life:. A relationship is about helping each other in every area, spiritually, financially, emotionally, academically etc. Never regret a relationship that didn’t work out to the end. It had its own purposes. Not all relationships are meant to lead us to the altar but they can help u in tangible ways. A relationship should motivate your spirit and help you live a better life. Ask yourself, in what area is your relationship helping you to grow?
2. Subtract from you:. If all your relationship does is to take from you and its adding nothing,then there is a problem. You keep giving out ideas, money, your body and you get no help in return,hmmmn, am not in support. Partners are to help each other achieve their goals not the other way round. So ask yourself again,how much has your relationship taken from you and in what measure has it given back? Consider the percentage yourself.
3. Multiply You:
Your relationship would help you and multiply you in the sense that,not only will it help you by adding,it will also take you to the altar. A good ministry can continue from there. With both of you partnering to together on your dreams. It can take you places ,you know. So find out where your relationship is leading you to.
4. Divide you and break you into pieces:
This means , it would not only you subtract from you, it would also make you loose yourself completely and leave you hanging. Why get stuck in a bad relationship. Some people may not be able to recover from a break up for years to come because it will leave them devastated. Be careful with who you roll with. Make sure you are not just putting it all with no help in return because when the worst would happen, I hope it doesn’t leave you stranded.
Now think about this slowly and re-evaluate your relationship. What is it doing to you presently?
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