Low Self Esteem………….Its Effects On Your Relationship

Low self esteem is when you feel inferior to others or things. You feel you are not up to the task or qualified for something. It is a feeling of not being good enough. It affects the lives of so many people. We all are controlled by this in so many ways unknown to us. You feel you need a gadget because all others are using it and if you don’t , you don’t belong.

I heard of a woman who killed herself because her husband couldn’t get her an Ipad. Her friends must have really ridiculed her I guess. Maybe they all have it and she felt bad at being alone in that class. She had to go to any extent to get it.

That feeling of inadequacy can affect you in your relationship too. The reason why people are still stuck in that bad relationship is simply because they feel they can’t get any better. They feel if they come out now, no one will love them more especially when they are in a relationship with a rich guy. A lady was once said she doesn’t mind a guy beating her but he should drop the money down simply because he is a celebrity. Am sure she felt she could never get better. That feeling of insecurity can be controlled when we stand our grounds for the best. Some guys stick to a nagging and deceptive lady in a relationship simply because she is so pretty. All these things happens even with our friends. We feel bullied when our friends ridicule us for not having something they have.

You need to understand that you can only get the best when you free yourself from the bad ones. You are created to get the best, not manage. If you are going through a bad relationship now and you feel you can’t be lucky again. My dear, this is the best time to either make it work or you quit. Someone out there would appreciate you. You need to appreciate the way you look, what you have etc. Never settle for less.

I hope I have touched your heart with this.

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About Nike Adedokun

Hello friends! I am so excited to meet you. I am Nike Adedokun, a Relationship and sexuality Coach. I help people build healthy relationships, emotionally balanced minds and sexually purified lives through consultancy, strategies and trainings. As a Master practitioner of NLP and Results coach, I deliberately reposition singles emotionally, mentally and sexually to enable them attract the kind of partner that would give them a purposeful relationship. Presently, I host great minds on a WhatsApp Class, The Mind Shift Network Masterclass. It's a class that centres around building healthy hearts, minds and sexuality. If you want to join us, just send a mail to adenikeadedokun@gmail.com with your details and you are in! Please do navigate through the various posts, podcasts, store and testimonials. Glad to have you here. Don't forget to follow me on twitter @NikeAdedokun. Choose to live healthy and stay purified!
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2 Responses to Low Self Esteem………….Its Effects On Your Relationship

  1. bukola says:

    @niky u ar really doing a great job, May God continue to increase your knowledge and be with you.

  2. Giftken says:

    God Bless u too, u will xcel

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