These days, some relationships are crumbling because of the social media. People log in and out of different social network everytime. We keep meeting new people everyday. The social networks are filled with people who wants to have a relationship or end someone’s relationship. People get crazy, naughty and nude on social networks these days. From the popular Facebook, Twitter, 2go, Eskimi, Badoo and the likes. People keep having dates from there. So what happens to people that are already in a relationship?. How can you control their motives online?. If you are in a relationship, why should you be disturbing someone else. Guys do it for sex while ladies do it for money. Only few do it to get a serious relationship. Why should you fall in love with someone you have not even met before?. Do you know if its a fake picture they have been using all this while. Why should you share your secrets with someone you barely know except for a good and understanding reason.
Well, sometimes ,some guys ask their girlfriends to block or close up their account. Is that realistic? I think it all boils down to trust. Your personality reflect on what you do online most times. Like they say ” while you are there saying my boo,my boo, le boo,le boo, your lover is out there flirting with all other lady on his contact”. The fact is that I get a lot of love messages from guys online on facebook, Twitter and Blackberry messenger and I keep wondering if these guys are not in a relationship. Guys will tell their girlfriends not to upload pictures or naughty post or one thing or the other,meaning they should just go ahead and close down their account. Why shouldn’t these guys close theirs too, at least they are the ones commenting with funny naughty comments or sending frequent messages through the inbox. So who is mostly at fault? I think it should be based on trust. I have fans and I know how it is like when some of them pulls some funny stunt but I have been handling them well I guess by the grace of God and I had no reason to be suspected in my relationship. I feel everything is based on trust though. I heard of a marriage that lasted for 2days simply because the man asked his wife to close down her social network accounts on their wedding night. For crying out loud,why didn’t he say that before the wedding. Well the lady left saying she can’t be married to a man who doesn’t love her. Well she should have handled it in a better way. Its all about communication. The truth here is the social media is destroying a lot of relationships. So if this is an issue that we need to tackle well in our relationship. You simply need to discuss about it well and not to order for a shut down. Ladies and money, guys and sex. The media is the best way to pull such stunts. Its a personal thing I guess.
So the issue now is what do you think can be done about this. I want to see your opinion on this topic because I know its a very big issue. Please drop your comments below.
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