1. Use your inner gentleman. Your
inner gentleman tells you the things to do that you know you should — but sometimes are too lazy — to do:
——-Paying for dates, unless the lady in question views the act as some
barbaric throwback to a more
——–Treat with caution. Opening doors, helping into chairs, and saying “please” and “thank you.” Generally putting the lady in question ahead of yourself out of respect.
——–Doing domestic duties. Some men who are already in long-term relationships shirk their domestic duties: forgetting to take out the trash, do the dishes, change the diapers. Real men know that they must share in domestic duties, as unpleasant as they may be.
——-Being a gracious loser. Man are naturally competitive, making this a tough one for some. Accept
defeat with the same grace that
you accept victory. Easier said
——Don’t kiss and tell. Men love the chase of romance, but too often get lured into bragging about the conquest. Don’t fall victim to the notion that if you don’t brag about it, it didn’t happen. Success in love
speaks loud enough for itself. A quiet confidence will perhaps even suggest to your friends that you’re a regular Lothario, even if you’re not. Always treat your significant
other with respect . A simple list of
dos and don’ts:
Listen to what they have to
Forgive them when they make
a simple mistake.
Follow through on what you say
Treat them the same way you’d
like to be treated.
Hold them to unrealistic
Manipulate them to get
whatever you want.
Treat them as an object instead
of a person.
Assume that you know how
they’ll feel or react.
——-Don’t rush a relationship. Lots of guys rush ladies into uncomfortable situations. By doing this, they not only
alienate the lady but also keep
themselves from getting what they want. Men know that when it comes to dating, the lady sets the pace: if she wants to rush into a whirlwind romance, he’s usually game; if she wants to take things slower, he’ll reassure her that he’s there for the long-haul. By letting her set the pace, the man sets the relationship up for success and usually ends up richer in
the bargain. Keep a little mystery in the tank. Men are irresistible to women precisely because they are intriguingly puzzling.
Being mysterious doesn’t have to
mean being the strong, silent type. It just means holding back a little for a later time, surprising with an unexpected skill, trait or gesture.
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