For both married and singles. What makes women happy? Believe it or not, it tends to be the little things that don’t count to men that make women the most satisfied in relationships.
Of all the things we talk about women wanting, time with their spouse is it. The vast majority of women in happy relationships get 30 minutes of uninterrupted time with their husbands each day. It may look funny but women get flattered with men who are always ready to spend their time with them. It makes women feel wanted and important.
Ask yourself, “How much time do I spend with my spouse?” Uninterrupted time means time spent without iPhones and Blackberrys — a conversation with nothing else on.
Nowadays, women take care of the children and make salaries, and they tend to be very underappreciated. Women should be expressive of what makes them feel appreciated, saying, “These are the kinds of things I like … x, y and z.” Men should listen, and women should tune in when their husbands are appreciative. Appreciate her for the little she does,I bet she will increase more on her caring stands.
It’s important for women to have men who understand them. It’s also important for women to help men understand how to listen. Men often don’t have a clue, they’re being bad listeners.
Women have to sense a time limit to conversation. More often than not, men are sitting there thinking, “When is this going to end?” I would say 15 to 20 minutes, max. Women should say to their husbands, “It’s 8:00 p.m.; I need you to listen until 8:20 p.m.” Women may deserve 10 hours, but most men are not the best at listening to serious, emotional conversations that go on.
This is one of those things that often goes out the window, especially after a while in the relationship. Be romantic and caring at all times. All the factors like jobs, rents or mortgages can add to relationship strain. Couples should set up a date night — once every week, even if they are tired — during which they spend a minimum of two hours alone. During this time, the couple should talk about everything BUT work, money and children. For those still in a relationship. Take time to go for some romantic outings. Surprise her a lot.
5. Kind Gestures:
Hugs, unexpected telephone calls to say “I love you.” Simple things. I suggest five touch points a day for one week — any kind gesture that takes 30 seconds or less. If a man can do this for his partner for one week, both will be amazed at how much better they feel in the relationship. A surprise dinner can fascinate her too. A surprise call or text just to say you miss her.
All these things looks to irrelevant but I tell you,they move women more than men. Try it.
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