10 Facts about Relationships. There are issues that needs to be noted in relationships:
1.No perfect relationship:
You can’t just get one,you just have to build your relationship from the scratch by blending your weakness and strengths,ignoring your imperfections to look perfect in your eyes.
2. No relationship without finance & sacrifice:
This is a normal thing. You don’t have to spend all your income buying material things but once in a while,just give and it should be on the both sides. Its not about receiving alone. Learn to make some sacrifices too.
3. Never trust your partner too much in your absence:
Just give them a benefit of doubt:
Not that they don’t deserve your trust but always be ready to expect anything. Nothing is new under this earth now. Trust them but not to the end,people change. Don’t be too blind to see the truth sometimes.
4. Those who cheat and lie before
marriage are most likely to continue to do so in marriage:
A dog is a dog come rain, come sunshine. Don’t think you can change your partner with love. Sometimes they get their senses back and begin to misbehave except God wants to change him or her completely.
5. Most relationships are created just for convenience:
Most peeps don’t really treasure their partners as they should:
You will agree with me that most people don’t even know what love is ,what being in a relationship is. If you want to have fun,just say it,if they agree to it,no problem but don’t prove serious when you know you will not be to the end.
6. What most lovers mistake for love is actually lust that will not last the test of time:
Find out time to know what you are really into. It should not be all about attraction and sex. Make sure its not lust but love.
7. The bitter truth works like bitter pills:
The truth about relationship maybe difficult to swallow but the truth is always take caution
8. The sooner we dump those who cheat and lie the better and happier we would be in future:
Some people feel they can never be lucky with the right one. We underrate ourselves. We feel that we would loose when we leave a bad relationship but the truth is that if you don’t leave now,you won’t meet the right person enough to notice.
9. You may ‘force’ a person to go out with you, but you cannot ‘force’ them to love you:
Its not a must, I can should to go on a date with you doesn’t mean I will love you so soon. Relationship is not a do or die affair. Stop the pressure. Let things flow normally. You can’t force a person to love you. You can only prove to be a lovable person. The rest is in their hands.
10. Without God,you are lost:
A relationship that doesn’t put God first will likely fail. Try finding out if you are compatible for the future. Its not about the love you have now. Troubles may arise later so clarify things now and it should be more of a personal conviction. Be sure!!!