Must read: Reasons why you are still stuck to that bad relationship

No matter what, in life, there would always be issues with our relationships,marriages etc but the way we handle is what matters. In every situation,we should learn to tolerate,endure and fight to make it work but when you notice the relationship is heading nowhere,so many signs can speak it. Reasons like he is never talking about being serious except for the fun sake,always maltreating you physically,emotionally etc,I will throw more light on this issue with how to know you are in a wrong relationship soon,maybe this week. Now when you know for sure it is heading no where,there are reasons why you may still feel strong to stay:
1. You feel so lost in the relationship: Some people are so bothered about their partner that they forget their life or forget to even check if the partner has been showing signs of care at all. We just wanna cater for them at all cost even you see the signs that it is over. Sometimes,we need to follow our dreams,dream high,be happy but if your relationship is not giving you an inner peace,my dear stop stucking yourself there. Its time to move on.
2. You are too scared to be single again: Some of us don’t want to leave that relationship because of the fear of being single. You don’t want to be alone. You need someone,emotionally,financially,physically so there is a fear of letting go. The fact is that if you don’t leave that old one,new ones won’t come. Let the spirit of independence drive you no matter what. If you depend too much on anyone,you might get disappointed because even our shadow leaves us. Let us know that our life matters too. I know it is not easy especially when we are in love. My dear,it is not, we won’t even mind killing ourselves there as long as we keep being together with our lover but the truth is that we need to be happy too so pull all the strength that you need,know when its time to let go and gradually to do it but make sure you have communicated about your relationship,you have prayed,you have done your best to make it work and you are so sure its not going anywhere before you take such decisions. It could be caused by the guy or the lady. The fact is that if you keep believing you cannot make it without that relationship,you will never be ready to move on. No perfect one out there,it starts with you. Do you have a different view to this,why not drop your comments below.

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About Nike Adedokun

Hello friends! I am so excited to meet you. I am Nike Adedokun, a Relationship and sexuality Coach. I help people build healthy relationships, emotionally balanced minds and sexually purified lives through consultancy, strategies and trainings. As a Master practitioner of NLP and Results coach, I deliberately reposition singles emotionally, mentally and sexually to enable them attract the kind of partner that would give them a purposeful relationship. Presently, I host great minds on a WhatsApp Class, The Mind Shift Network Masterclass. It's a class that centres around building healthy hearts, minds and sexuality. If you want to join us, just send a mail to adenikeadedokun@gmail.com with your details and you are in! Please do navigate through the various posts, podcasts, store and testimonials. Glad to have you here. Don't forget to follow me on twitter @NikeAdedokun. Choose to live healthy and stay purified!
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