Long distance relationships is between two people who have agreed to build a relationship non withstanding the distance between them. Distance refers to a stretch in location like the guy is in Abuja while the lady is in port-harcourt. It works but it depends on the two of you. You need to understand each other very well,know your wants,desires,likes and dislikes to avoid too much misunderstandings. You need to understand the job and time schedules to avoid arguments on calling rates. You need to know how busy he or she is. You need trust,it can’t survive without trust even a close relationship need trust to work. You shouldn’t suspect your partner at all times. There should be room for explanation since you can’t run down to his or her house to explain matters. From the explanation,you can deduce the truth from it. A relationship without trust is dead. You need to know your future plans so that you don’t tend to waste your time. Is it heading to marriage or not. Let the both parents be aware. Make sure God is backing you up too so that you don’t waste your time in the relationship. There should be effective communication between the both of you,spend time talking more since that’s the only connection you have. Spare minutes to talk and iron issues out well. Out of no time, always create time to see each other at least 2 to 3 times a month depending on the job or school schedule. Either as a student or a working class,you should create time to visit each other. It should be on the both sides not just one person doing it all. There should be exchange of gifts at most visit just to show love. The guys should always be at his responsibility at all times( spiritually, financially and all areas). Always tell your partner you love him or her when you talk or through sms and mails. Its important to keep the bond tight. People tend to want to hear it often from their partner. I want to believe you can make it work with these.
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