What ladies need to avoid to have a good relationship.

There are a number of things
that you should never tell a
man if you would like to have
a good dating relationship
with him. Let us take a look
at them so that you can
avoid them.
1. Being the first to say “I
love you.” You may say this
as a way of making him say
that he loves you too, but
you should not try to push
him to say something he is
not yet prepared for. You will
remain in an awkward
position when he does not do
it.
2. If he promised to call but
didn’t, don’t confront him
and ask why he did not call.
You will be basically accusing
him of not caring for you,
and it is more likely that you
will make him turn defensive.
3. When you go out on a
date, do not press him to tell
you when you should expect
to see him once more. If he
is really interested, he will
get in touch. On the other
hand, if he has no interest,
then you should not keep
your life on hold for him.
4. In case he does not keep
his promise to see you, you
should not ask him where he
had been. The hidden
question is really whether he
was out with another girl,
which will just show your fear
and insecurity.
5. In case he had gone out
with another woman, you will
simply put both of you in an
uncomfortable position when
you ask him whether he went
to bed with her. Even if he
did, he is not doing it now.
6. Whether you have just
started going out with a guy
or you have dated for some
time, do not press him with
the question as to where
your relationship is going. If
the relationship is promising,
you will simply know this
from his actions.
7. If you have something you
would like to discuss with
him, bring it up casually at
an appropriate time. When
you tell him that you would
like to have a talk, he will
automatically become
defensive as he does not
expect the conversation to be
enjoyable. You just need to
choose your time well.
8. However much he has hurt
you, going around stating
how you have him won’t
solve the issue. In fact, when
you maintain your cool even
during a breakup, you will
win his admiration. But
throwing temper tantrums
will only push him further
away from you.
9. In case you suspect that
he has been up to no good,
telling him that you don’t
trust him won’t make him
change. Instead, he will just
get more careful, and you
won’t be able to get the
much needed evidence.

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One Response to What ladies need to avoid to have a good relationship.

  1. Slimpreety abimbola says:

    Ok

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