Double dating: Good or Bad?


So many people have always viewed double dating as a way out of not getting dissapointed when one patner leaves. Double dating is when you are dating more than one guy or lady. It is something that happens with the both sex. Some claim to double date because of security,they feel that even when one dissapoints them or fumbles,there will be a quick replacement. Some also do it to acquire more financial help from different guys,this is common among ladies. They feel that when you date one guy and you meed money, if he refuses to give you then you are only on your own but with different guys you can easily pick on all of them at the same time with at least one helping out out of all. Some ladies even date different men for different purposes,some for free food,recharge cards or subscription charge,sex,money,rides etc.
        Men also double date because they feel ladies are not to be trusted,so they want to feel secured with many,some for sex,money,chores etc. Everyone seems to have a motive behind it and it has become a common trend.
        I want to believe that a matured man or lady should know what he wants and get it rather than testing many. It has its consequences too,its either one finds out and destroys everything thereby loosing them all or you will keep having the fear of unfaithfulness from the patners.
       Starting a relationship requires time,energy,commitment,trust and prayers. You need to let God direct you on who to marry instead of making repeated mistakes. God’s time is the best. Put it in his hand,it is better to be single than to waste time in a fruitless relationship. Double dating is not healthy,desist from it. Even if your relationship doesn’t work out,you would have learnt some things from it and it would help you in your next relstionship. Some relationships are meant for some purpose in our lives,it doesn’t mean it would work out to the end. In every relationship,open your eyes and your mind to some things,don’t make mistakes that can cause you a lifetime,don’t start makng unnecessary oath for love etc. Love can come from any corner don’t think you can’t love again. The fact that it didn’t work out well with that person doesn’t mean you should kill yourself or embark on a journey of vengeance,its not worth it. There would be better days ahead if only you can relax well for the right person. Kudos.

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