Can pregnancy hook a man down?

So many ladies out there think that getting pregnant for her boyfriend in a relationship can keep the love glowing. Men see pregnancy as a way of tieing them down. The fact is that men don’t care if you give them sex 10 times a day, cook food every minute, if he won’t love you,you would be wasting your time forcing yourself on him.
    Sometimes i wonder why  ladies always underate themselves by thinking they can never get a better man even when they are maltreated, they just want to stick around at all cost. The truth is no matter how you try,if he is not putting any effort in keeping you, just let go, going too extreme is like you punishing yourself. Am not saying loving a guy and putting your bests effort is bad but make sure he loves you too.
     If a man has not taken you to the altar, i see no reason why you should do so many abortions and keep getting pregnant for. Aside it being a sin, i see it as morally bad,it drops the value of a man.
     Let me ask you too, do you think pregnancy or sex can keep a man down. Drop your comments below.



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2 Responses to Can pregnancy hook a man down?

  1. Kate says:

    It’s funny how a lot of girls think this I’m sure it crossed my mind in my last relationship when my ex wanted nothing to do with me. Until, I became uninterested in him he showed up at my door with flowers and tears in his eyes. You need to let go of all insecurities and be happy and independent and hell be hooked in a good way. As far as getting pregnant, terrible idea. My current boyfriend has a beautiful baby with his ex and she went absolutely insane when he broke up with her. Stopping his child from seeing him, texting and calling all day, stopping by his house unannounced and using his child against him or to make him feel bad and also calling me names when we never met. Needless to say, he’s with me and very happy and gets to see his little one through joint custody after fighting in front of a judge. Can you say unattractive?

    • nikziead says:

      Hello kate. Thanks for the comment.
      Dear, to be frank,being with a guy that treats his ex with a child for him like that is unattractive. He could do that to you later you know. You can judge a man’s character from the way he treat his friends and people around him. Don’t be deceived by love. If anythn goes wrong,he could turn around too. Think about it.

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